Alpha and Beta Personalities
First I would like to discuss the ALPHA. Alpha personality is a person whom people are attracted to and want to be with them because of personality traits that he or she has. The guy who always gets the hottest girls is an alpha. The woman many people admire onstage, with style and dignity is an alpha. A church leaders who lead a community is an alpha. Good example of this are celebrities, rock stars , political and business leaders. People always want to join their leadership or company. One of the traits that they have is self confidence. They are certain in the things that they want. And they usually care and love themselves. These alpha individuals give value to others and always possess a positive energy which is the reason why people love them so much. Most of the time they do what other people don’t want to do. And the good part is they get the money, the car, the girl or the guy that they want while people respect them because of their positive impact to the society.
What is BETA ? M ost of them become followers because they have little self confidence and they are uncertain on the things that they want. That’s why they need a leader to guide them. They always blame others or circumstances and avoid responsibilities . In short, they are the opposite of the alpha. Being a beta is not bad. Most of us start in this state and along the way with the guide of the alpha persons or leaders. In such way, we can develop to adapt ourselves and learn how to become one of the alphas. You start developing your self confidence and start leading your own community as well. We don’t want to be in beta state forever . We can upgrade ourselves and make a difference to our family and society as a whole.
Do you want to be a follower forever? Of course not. That’s why we need to grow and develop our -selves and believe in our potential….
So the real question, is what do you want to be? Being an Alpha or a Beta? Choose now or else life will choose for you by default, and you might regret it..:=)
In building your business or creating relationship weather on line or Offline being alpha is an advantage, you can attract more followers that will turn in to loyal clients or business partners.